Here's her email to me:
Yes, your Jaime will be in it! It goes to print next week, out 1st May. I'm excited. Here's a link to the book, and the exhib (which will feature only 14 kids, not Jaime, but the films I made for Ch 4 will be shown so he'll be there somehow).
Sorry you're having a tough time... nothing is permanent, I hope good things are round the corner.
If you happen to be in the UK 6th May, come to the exhib opening at the Museum of Childhood, 6-8pm.